We all know that trust is a delicate issue. It is crucial to a healthy and loving relationship, and without it is impossible for a relationship to thrive. Trusts builds emotional security and it deepens the bonds between individuals. It also fosters personal growth and stability.
Here are a few tips on how you can regain lost ground in your relationship with your husband, and get the trust that he actually desires to give you. These tips work, because they have worked for me.
1) Support him in his social interactions.
It may not be fun to support your husband on pursuing his own interests with friends or other family members, but by doing so you are fostering trust and increasing the likelihood that he will want to trust you as well.
2) Offer him unconditional love.
If your husband feels he cannot really be himself, he will not trust you. It may be difficult to accept some of his habits and ways of doing things, but if he does not feel he has your support in being himself, he will pull back from you.
3) Get comfortable with your feelings.
Past experiences may make it hard for you to trust your husband. If he feels you are pulling back and not talking about your own issues, he will be less likely to trust you.
4) Build his self-esteem.
Try to focus on the positive and to compliment him on his achievements, even if they are only small achievements. If you build him up, he will feel that he can trust you because you are on his side. He must believe that you are truly on his side in order to trust you.
5) Don’t judge.
Do your best to say nothing when you really want to tell him that what he is doing is wrong or you want to make a black and white statement about his character. If he feels judged, he will not trust you and may judge you in return, which will only make you not trust him… and so the vicious circle goes on and on.
6) Try to be fair.
There are many reasons why sometimes we may try to color a situation to our advantage instead of disclosing the whole truth. If your husband catches you in a “white lie” he may doubt the sincerity of what you say in other aspects of the relationship.
Ask yourself: Does your husband or lover seem distant? Would you like him to change? Does it seem like the romance is gone from the relationship? Does he seem to be insensitive, out of reach, removed, cold, detached, indifferent, or unloving?
Wouldn’t it be wonderful to have him be crazy about you? Have him be enchanted with you… to have him cherish you, think the world of you, be close to you, always attentive, considerate, loving you, treasuring you? IT CAN HAPPEN! Take action and see for yourself! How?
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