We all know the scenario, well… at least those of us who have been married and found ourselves in divorce court! There were signs along the way that indicated the marriage was in trouble, but we really didn’t think it was that serious or we tried to minimize the situation because just thinking about the possibility of divorce seemed overwhelming.
If you are like me, you want to think things will improve in time. Let me give you a word of advice: things usually do not improve with the passage of time. If there is a problem, chances are that same problem will be around next month and even next year, assuming your marriage lasts that long.
To step out of denial may be painful, but it is the beginning of a possibility of changing the situation. Here are some warning signs I can attest to as being red flags to watch out for in your wife husband relationship:
1) You are fighting more often.
It doesn’t matter what the subject of the argument may be this week, it seems like you are arguing a lot more about finances, time, work, your complaints about lack of affection or communication or whatever the topic may be. What’s more, you don’t seem to reach a real resolution to your arguments.
2) Resentment is in the air.
After the argument is over, the argument is not really over. He brings up things you have done or said in the past, (things that you think are not that important by the way), and he resents you.
3) He seems to be avoiding interaction with you.
Your significant other may be escaping the relationship by being involved in activities with friends or work that keep him away from home, or at the very least, away from involvement with you. If he is out, love may be going out the window as well.
4) You may feel like you are walking on eggshells.
It seems that whatever you do irritates him and you are finding yourself more self-conscious of your behavior and even your words. You are afraid of saying something that may upset him.
5) He seems to have lost interest in you.
There is really not that much to talk about anymore and you are not going out as a couple as much as you used to. He comes home straight to the television set or the computer, without showing you affection or attention. Marriage/husband issues are best dealt as soon as possible if this is the case.
Don’t wait until it is too late to save your relationship.
Ask yourself: Does your husband or lover seem distant? Does it seem like the romance is gone from the relationship? Would you like him to change? Does he seem to be insensitive, out of reach, removed, cold, detached, indifferent, or unloving?
Wouldn’t it be wonderful to have him be crazy about you? Have him be enchanted with you… to have him cherish you, think the world of you, be close to you, always attentive, considerate, loving you, treasuring you? IT CAN HAPPEN! Take action and see for yourself! How?
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